What Should the Mother of the Bride and Groom Wear?

As the mother of the bride or groom, you'll be in the photos, greeting guests and dancing late into the night. Here's how to choose a color and style you'll feel great in.

What color should the mother of the bride wear?

Start with the wedding palette. Many mothers choose a shade that complements the bridesmaids rather than matching them exactly, so they stand out in the photos for the right reasons. Ask the bride before you shop, and leave white and ivory to her unless she says otherwise.

What should the mother of the groom wear?

Traditionally, the mother of the bride chooses first and the mother of the groom follows, so the two dresses complement each other in color, length and formality. A quick photo swap between the two mothers saves a lot of guesswork.

Can the mothers wear black?

Yes. Black is common today, especially at evening weddings. Check with the couple first, and add a jacket or a touch of color if you'd like it to feel less formal.

Length, sleeves and comfort

Match the length to the dress code: long gowns for evening and formal weddings, and tea length for daytime or relaxed celebrations. Sleeves and jackets add coverage and warmth, and our mothers collections include sleeves, jackets and tea-length styles.

Try on near St. Louis

See mother of the bride dresses and mother of the groom dresses online, or visit DOLLZ at 103 Chesterfield Valley Dr in Chesterfield. Walk-ins are welcome, or book an appointment. We offer perfect fit, with alterations done in store.

FAQs

Can the mother of the bride wear the same color as the bridesmaids?

She can, but many mothers choose a complementary shade so they stand apart in photos. Ask the bride what she prefers.

Should the mother of the bride and groom match?

They don't need to match, but their dresses should complement each other in color, length and formality.

Where can I try on mother of the bride dresses near St. Louis?

At DOLLZ Bridal & Prom, 103 Chesterfield Valley Dr, Chesterfield, MO. Walk-ins are welcome, or book an appointment online.